We must educate the public about the sleazy child support scheme.
The reality is; the Family Courts are running a total racket… they are destroying families, destroying fathers, and most certainly, destroying children. The forced Child Support charges brought upon men are completely exaggerated and irrefutably reduce many men to total or near poverty. There is no accountability whatsoever, there is only extortion, and why you ask? It is because the more child support that a judge orders, the higher the kick back the State receives from the Federal Government. (Title IV-D Section 458)
The whole family court operation is a total violation of the US Constitution. Check amendments 5, 13, 14 just to start and then read the Universal Declaration of Human Rights, articles 25 and 30. When you, or any of us, ignore the plights of the innumerable men, women and children who suffer daily, then we also inadvertently support such corruption because we do nothing, and we are no better than the lawyers, judges and greed-driven mothers that are the cause of such agony.
Children are the future…
Children DO NOT care about child support payments! Only covetous individuals crave money and control over their fellow man. The children want love from their parents and they need it more than ever in such a dismal world. Money is not equal to love.
Yet, there are women, aided by family court judges, who keep their children away from the father even though that man must pay nearly half of his paycheck to the mother. This is not right, for the father or the child.
If Mommy wants sole custody of her child... Mommy needs to get a job and support that child all by herself, for that is the price to pay for keeping children from their father. After all, as an equal and independent woman, she had all the options on whether to abort the fetus in the first days or month, or she also could have put the baby up for adoption as there are millions of stable couples looking to adopt, and she might even have opted to legally abandon the child, if she felt that she wasn’t ready to be a mother. Her body, her choice, her responsibility.
Men, receive none of the same options that women do, and that alone is not reasonable. Mothers don't have to be mothers if they feel they're not ready, but men must become forced into fatherhood? The "keep it in your pants" argument is not a valid argument, for obviously, the woman's consent was involved for sex to have been had, and on that subject, what about the women who "claim" to be on birth control, but are not? The women whom, as soon as they're pregnant, end the relationship and move on to become “single mothers” by choice? By "single mother" is meant, they sue for child support and accept Government assistance. Then, once Welfare runs dry, they repeat the cycle, or marry a different man where they can later file for divorce and ask for alimony? How about those Women? They are toxic and a big deal to do with why the child support laws and alimony laws do not work. What if a man wants no part in his child's life, for whatever reason? Should he be forced into fatherhood? Should he be forced to pay exorbitant amounts of child support? The answer to that should be no.. it's not the optimal choice for that man to make, but it should be his to make nonetheless. In the short term it seems cowardly, but in the long term, it will change things... You see, once women are told that they are not going to get free money just for having a baby, watch and see how fast the pregnancy statistics will decline.
Now, if we're talking about the children of divorced parents, that's a different story… However, 90% of men will unconditionally take care of their children, even though it means going into the poor house themselves. What men ought to have is a better system, if they choose to pay child support. Such as; pay the national average cost of raising a child, which is far lower than what the typical amount a judge is ordering. According to a documentary about divorce called, 'Divorce Corp,' in Scandinavia, child support is $150/month and that's it. There is no incentive for divorce or child custody and as a matter of statistics, Scandinavia beats the US in all around prosperity and health. US needs to follow suit.
The “people” need to become educated and quit pretending that because "men" complain about child support that they just don't want to pay child support. That is completely false and irresponsible for any of us to assume. Read the statistics on the number of suicides as a result of unfairness in the family court system and you'll understand what's really at stake. These "children" that the family courts, and ignorant citizens pretend to care about, are growing up fatherless. Even the children who grow up with child support paying fathers, tend to repeat the cycle of abandoning their own children due to being a witness to the custody wars and so on.
Child support needs reform... now. We can no longer do nothing.
We must, as Americans, as a People, Wake Up... now.
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